Saturday, December 29, 2012

Out with the Old, In With the New: A Sermon for Sunday, December 30th

Scripture Texts: 2 Corinthians 5:16-20 and Revelation 21:1-6a

Out with the old, in with the new. That tends to be a pretty popular sentiment around this time of year. Tomorrow is New Year’s Eve, and as is the custom for many people, it will be a time for new beginnings, new dreams, new goals, and of course, New Year’s resolutions. Personally, I don’t always make New Year’s resolutions. Some years I do, some years I don’t-- I suspect it usually has something to do with how much free time I have to reflect on such things. There are other people I know, however, who are more consistent. I have one friend who is so religious about her new year's resolutions, that every year, she types up a document-- usually several pages long--with a list of resolutions that includes short term goals, long term goals, and an action plan with a clearly laid out time line for how she intends to accomplish and keep her resolutions. As an added measure of accountability, she then sends this list to several of her closest friends, which of course in no way makes any of the rest of us feel inadequate or lazy at all about our own New Year's resolutions-- or lack thereof.

On the other end of the spectrum, I have some friends who are completely opposed to the idea of New Year’s resolutions, seeing them as nothing more than frivolous promises that are meant to be broken. These are the people who scoff at the rest of us and our good intentions to eat healthier, read more non-fiction, or finally buckle down and start learning that second language.  "Can't teach an old dog new tricks," these folks might say. "What you see is what you get."

Most of us, I suspect, fall somewhere between these two extremes. Maybe we like the idea of New Year’s resolutions. Maybe we have good intentions. But maybe we also don't take them too seriously because we know from experience that our resolve doesn’t always last terribly long into the new year.

The truth is, New Year’s resolutions can sometimes be frivolous, and they are not usually anything we should lose sleep over. Still, this morning, since it is the day before New Year's Eve, I would like to make an argument in favor of New Year’s resolutions. Not necessarily the kind that have to do with losing weight or going to the gym more often-- though those are certainly worthy goals. Rather, I’m talking about the kinds of resolutions we make with the aim of transformation-- with the aim of becoming better people.  Kinder, more courageous, more educated, or more compassionate. Resolutions to become more spiritually minded and more devoted to prayer or meditation practices. Resolutions to be less selfish and more giving of our time, our resources, and our hearts. This morning, I would like to come out in favor of transformation-based resolutions. In part because it seems as if our scripture texts somehow demand it. Both of our readings today are rich in imagery of transformation--of new life and new creation.

“There will be a new heaven and a new earth,” the book of Revelation says. “Death will be no more, mourning and crying and pain will be no more.”

“If anyone is in Christ,” Paul writes in his second letter to the Corinthians, “there is a new creation: everything old has passed away, everything has become new!”

Out with the old, in with the new. Just like we said.

There’s only one problem with that.

We have become accustomed, in this scientific age, to view things in a very binary manner. Things are either black or white, good or bad, fact or fiction—old or new. It’s a way of looking at the world, and ourselves, that leads to sentiments like our mantra this morning--“out with the old, in with the new”--as if it were just a switch that we could somehow flip on or off at will. The problem is, in my experience, and I would imagine in many of yours as well--God’s timing and God’s transformation rarely, if ever, works that way. And for most of us, that being the case, we may read our scripture texts this morning with a certain amount of skepticism.  Hearing within them beautiful words of hope, but also not quite sure if we actually see that new creation taking place in the world around us.

There’s a great book that came out a few years ago with a rather enigmatic title. It's called: A Visit from the Goon Squad. It’s a complicated book, and it’s about many things. But mostly, it’s a book about time. It’s a book about how we change over time, and how we tend to go both forwards and backwards in our personal and spiritual transformation. The book centers around the lives of two characters--Bennie and Sasha-- but the book does not flow in chronological order. The reader has to pay close attention to know if they are in the past, the present, or the future. The evolution of the characters in the story does not happen in a single straight line. There is no one moment when lightening flashes and everything changes.  There is no moment when old becomes new, wounds are healed, and people are transformed. Rather, it’s all part of one, great big, messy and sometimes confusing mosaic. A larger picture that one can only see if one sticks with the story right up to the very end. And it is only then, at the end of the story, when the transformation that has been taking place all along--sometimes in very small and unexpected ways--finally becomes clear. 

I have a theory that when it comes to God’s transformation and the bringing about of new creation, in our lives and in the world--it's a little bit like that. That our lives, and the life of the world around us, are all part of one great big mosaic--one that is sometimes confusing, often messy, at times beautiful and always changing. A mosaic that blends past, present and future.  One that takes the old and blends it with the new in order to create something entirely different.  

It’s not about flipping a switch, because the truth is, we need our past along with our future. Our past is part of what makes us who we are. Even the mistakes we’ve made, the promises we've broken, and the bad habits we struggle with-- those too are an important part of who we are and who we will become.

Our lives are a mosaic in which we constantly move backwards and forwards, ever so slowly inching towards the new creation of who we will ultimately become. We may not see it clearly now, but we will--if we stick with the story, right up to the very end.

And so when it comes to our New Year's resolutions-- those promises we make at the beginning of a new year with the aim of transformation- they are important. Not because we will miraculously change every bad habit we've ever had or wipe away every imperfection or flaw, but because they help us reset our focus, and remember that no matter what happened yesterday, and no matter what may happen tomorrow, what we do today, in this moment, will become a vital thread in the final image of who we will become.

What we do today-- the promises that we make and keep today-- will bring about our transformation in the future. So go ahead and make those resolutions, and know that God is there in the midst of it all. God is there in the midst of who we were, who we are, and who we will become. Old and new. Alpha and Omega. Yesterday, today, and tomorrow.

 

Let us pray...

 

Oh God of Life, we give you thanks for new beginnings, new opportunities, and the coming of a new year.  We pray that you would give us strength of purpose in the days ahead, help us to believe in the power of your transformation.  Help us to have faith in the story you have given to us at Christmas.  May we catch a glimpse of your transformation as it occurs in our lives and in the world around us. 

 

 

 

Tuesday, December 18, 2012

A Pastoral Letter Following the Tragic Shooting in Newtown

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The following letter will go out with the Park Congregational Church January newsletter.  I pray that there may there be something within this letter to calm and comfort our weary and saddened hearts.


Dear members and friends of Park Church,

As the last few days have gone by, I’ve struggled to know what to say to all of you, and how to say it.  Many have noted, quite wisely, that there are no words for such unspeakable tragedy.  It’s true that there are no words that can fix what has happened.  There are no words that can heal the hearts that have been broken.  There are no words that can put everything back the way it was, so that we might go on unchanged.  There are no words we can say to one another to make everything okay, because everything is most definitely not okay.  Lastly, there are no words that can explain or make sense of what has happened, because this was a senseless act which is impossible to fathom or understand.

And so when it comes to all of those things, it’s true that there are no words.  I do not believe that these words which I write to you now can do any of the things I mentioned above.  These words that I write now will not fix, heal, explain, or make sense out of the senseless.  And so I struggle to know what to say.  Or even if I should say anything at all.  I have heard more than one person complain that everywhere they turn, there is talk of tragedy.  Television, radio, social media—it’s everywhere.  And people are overwhelmed with the sadness of it all.  Do you really need one more person adding to the cacophony of voices already out there?

But, then, I am your pastor.  And we are a community that stands together during difficult times.  As Christians, we do not shrink from difficulty or darkness, we stand up to it, holding the light of Christ which we carry in our hearts.  We do not let darkness have the last word.  As the apostle Paul says, “do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good.”

And so yes, there is something I can and need to say to you now.  I can say that in times like these, we may not know the right words to pray, but we can still come before God in prayer, even if our prayers have no words, and the Spirit will give voice to the deepest sighs of our hearts.  And we may not have the words to heal the hearts of those who have suffered such tremendous loss, but we can hold them in prayer— perhaps tighter and deeper than any we have ever held in prayer before.  We can carry the light of faith for them, because perhaps it is too heavy a burden for them to carry right now.  We can send cards, prayers, prayer shawls, teddy bears, and other simple comforts, if only to let them know they are not alone.  We can stand together with them, as much as we are able, and pour out all the love and support we might find within ourselves to give.

In the days ahead, there will be a need for honest conversations about how to prevent such unspeakable tragedies from happening in our schools and other public spaces.  All of us will need to search our hearts and ask difficult questions about how we might make our world safer for our children. That is the task that we will set before us in the days ahead.  For now, however, on this day, and during this Christmas season, your one and only task is to seek out those whom you love and cherish, and hold them a little closer this year.  Tell them how much you love them.  Remember that they-- the ones we love and the ones who love us-- are the most important and priceless gifts we will receive this Christmas.      

May God’s peace be in your hearts and homes this Christmas.  May God’s light shine in the darkness, never to be overcome.  And may we have the strength and faith to believe in such a promise.

                                                                                                            Sincerely,

                                                                                                            Rev. Sara Ofner-Seals